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Christ-like Compromise

The art of Christ-like compromise….in relationships, ministry, leadership, and life.

Today I was reminded of a story my Grandpa told me a few weeks before I got married.

I remember one morning as we sat around the breakfast table in the kitchen of the farm house asking Grandpa, “So, do you have any advice for me before I get married?”

Grandpa paused for a while, stirring his half-cup of coffee and finally said, “You’re going to have to learn how to compromise.”

“What does that look like?” I asked.

Grandpa sipped his coffee and then said, “Well, one time Grandma wanted a new clothes line put up on the north side of the house. I wasn’t going to put it up on the north side because that is where I parked my truck. So I told her we were going to put the clothes line on the east side. She didn’t like that idea because she was afraid the wind would blow sand into the cloths. So, we comprised.”

I sat for awhile and when I finally figured out my directions I exclaimed, “Grandpa, the clothes line is on the north side. How is that a compromise?”

He chuckled a little bit and then with a half grin on his face he said, “Well son, you’ll learn.

Grandpa, I am learning.

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  1. April 1, 2009 at 8:14 pm | #1

    :? )

  2. Breanne
    April 2, 2009 at 8:51 pm | #2

    Love it

  3. Mike A.
    April 3, 2009 at 10:06 pm | #3

    Pastor,
    What wise advice I hope I can someday pass on something half that wise to my grandchhildren.
    But the best part is it appears that you have taken the advice to heart and use it wisely.
    Thank you Lord for sending the Ash family to us!

  4. Rob W.
    April 7, 2009 at 6:01 pm | #4

    So… where did he park his truck?

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